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In feng shui, male belongs with Yang, and female belongs with yin energy.
If you are having healthy relationship with your partner ( husband/ wife ), it shows your yin yang energy are balancing.
On the other hand, if you are having problem with your partner, it shows you lost your yin yang balance with your partner.
In feng shui, it’s considered that wife is strong during the day, and husband is strong during night.
During the day, there are full of yang energy and if wife is stronger than husband, husband can handle it.
However during the night, when energy becomes yin, wife is better to be supportive to husband to have good balance.
There are many couples who are match, and who can have good balance naturally without trying to.
For those couples who are match, it’s no problem.
But if you are having difficult relationships causing stress, there are ways to fix the energy using direction of the bed.
Lucky bed location for Husband & Wife
* Both of you have same lucky directions
If you and your husband’s lucky directions are the same, based on your Kua numbers, ( if you don’t know your lucky directions, you can check it here http://www.mercurytreasures.com/feshyopeludi.html )
You can just put your bed in both of your lucky directions.
Also put your pillows in the lucky direction as well.
* You and your partner have different lucky directions
If your partner and your lucky directions are different, it’s good to put the bed in one of the husband’s lucky directions.
And both of your head directions ( the place for your pillows ) are good to put in one of the wife’s lucky directions.
However this is only when it’s possible to do it .
The following are some guidelines for the position of your bed
Position for your bed.
* Good to place to the left or right of the door but not directly facing the door.
* Make sure there is no convex part of the ceiling which is directed to your head while sleeping.
If there is, it influences your health condition and some other luck, and this is bad feng shui.
* No mirror in front of your bed.
If you have to place mirror there, then good to cover it with cloth.
* Bed should not be on the same side as door.
* Good to place chest between wall and bed or just place the bed next to wall.
Having a space between bed and wall is not good feng shui.
* Placing a bed next to the window doesn’t make your sleeping well, and it can influence outside energy directly to you.
( because outside energy can be bad or good ).
* If there is a bathroom in your bedroom, make sure the bathroom door is not directly facing to your bed.
Place the bed on different side, and away from the bathroom door.
* If your bedroom door and bathroom door are facing, and you can not avoid directly from those two doors,
and have to place the bed between the doors, place a screen or cabinet next to the bed for both sides , or make a curtain around the bed to block these clutters.
* Double bed which has two mattresses is known as bad feng shui for couples, it may cause the couple to separate in the future.
Always one mattress.
A Pair of Rose quartz item
It’s also great to display a pair of rose quartz item, such as a pair of rose quartz love birds figurine near your bed.
It has power to balance yang and yin energy around the space and have healthy happy marriage life.
Color feng shui for your husband’s personality
If you are having problem with your husband’s personality, having your husband to wear good feng shui color clothes may be able to solve the issue.
Seeing the Color has power to change your feeling good or bad, and the color of outfit can influence one’s mood and feeling.
Mother complex type
Most of men are usually considered to have mother complex.
However if it’s too much it is not well balanced.
If you feel your husband’s mother complex is too much, try to have your husband to wear green & ivory colors clothes.
Green color symbolizes increasing growing,
and Ivory color symbolizes independent.
Dark green color is good for healthy family relationship.
Especially great to use green and ivory colors for your husband’s pajama or sleeping wear, and also towels.
Temper, aggressive type
If your husband is temper and aggressive type of personality , there is too much fire’s yang energy .
To calm down the fire energy, earth energy is needed.
Brown color belong to earth, so good to have brown color outfit.
Brown color has power to balance the energy of family relationship.
However, even though brown is good to balance yang energy, balance is always needed.
Rather than using all brown color, mixing with ivory, green, yellow colors can have good balance.
For your temper husband, brown or yellow based color necktie can balance his emotion.
Also stripe or checkered designs are good for family energy’s balance.
Power gemstones
For Temper, aggressive type husbands, good to have amethyst.
For husbands who are easy to get stress and depression, good to have onyxes.
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