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Why keeping your mouth shut is important to attract good luck ?


There is a mystery I’ve been wondering about and that is why does it seem that we always get good luck when we were keeping our mouth shut while in the process of doing something.

I noticed that while I was doing job hunting, looking for a partner, or going traveling, etc..
And people around me also experienced the same things.


Since I noticed that, I started keeping my mouth shut in the process of whatever I planned to do.

Let me give you some examples,



While I was looking for a job, I tried many companies, also registered in five temporary job centers. And I got some job offers from the temporary job centers.

Soon after I got the offer, and before going to the interviews, I told about it to my mother, and my friends who were worried about me.

And in that process, when the benefit of the offer was good, I told about it to everyone with excitement and big expectation as if I already got the job.

However, it always failed and I could not get those jobs.

And when I was not so expecting , and didn’t tell anyone about it , things always went well and I got a good job.

Also about marriage,

I have several close friends who often share our relationship situation with each other, and before marriage, starting from “ how’s it going with your boyfriend ? ” , we always loved to share the details whenever something new happened in our dating life.

And it was always nice things happening when we did NOT expect the result, and didn’t talk much.

For my marriage, since I knew that, I didn’t tell anyone about my opportunity to meet my husband.

It was very hard not to tell to my best friend when I was asked about my present situation at that time.


And I made a big surprise to everyone including my family when it became sure decision , right before my husband and I got married.

However, one of my friends who is still single, who is still looking for her future husband is still telling everyone whenever she had a new opportunity, expecting , dreaming to marriage life with new boyfriend.

But still repeating.

I’m originally the kind of person who loves to tell people around me the process for any
plans. And it’s quite hard for me not to tell anyone my true feelings.


But there is also research about one of the secrets of success strategies.

“ Don’t talk to anyone about your plans except for those who directly assist you. “

This way you can concentrate your inner fire, your concentration to succeed.

It’s not so easy to use our minds the right way though.

Dream big as if it is already happening, but not with expectation for it to happen , don’t expect the result, don’t tell about it to anyone, but just do it.

If you use your mind the right way, it will bring good luck and you will succeed.

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