There is a mystery I’ve been wondering about and that is why does it seem that we always get good luck when we were keep our mouth shut while in the process of doing something.
I noticed that while I was doing job hunting, looking for a partner, or going traveling, etc..
And people around me also experienced the same things.
Since I noticed that, I started keeping my mouth shut in the process of whatever I planned to do.
Let me give you some examples,
While I was looking for a job, I tried many companies, also registered in five temporary job centers. And I got some job offers from the temporary job centers.
Soon after I got the offer, and before going to the interviews, I told about it to my mother, and my friends who were worried about me.
And in that process, when the benefit of the offer was good, I told about it to everyone with excitement and big expectation as if I already got the job.
However, it always failed and I could not get those jobs.
And when I was not so expecting , and didn’t tell anyone about it , things always went well and I got a good job.
Also about marriage,
I have several close friends who often share our relationship situation with each other, and before marriage, starting from “ how’s it going with your boyfriend ? ” , we always loved to share the details whenever something new happened in our dating life.
And it was always nice things happening when we did NOT expect the result, and didn’t talk much.
For my marriage, since I knew that, I didn’t tell anyone about my opportunity to meet my husband.
It was very hard not to tell to my best friend when I was asked about my present situation at that time.
And I made a big surprise to everyone including my family when it became sure decision , right before my husband and I got married.
However, one of my friends who is still single, who is still looking for her future husband is still telling everyone whenever she had a new opportunity, expecting , dreaming to marriage life with new boyfriend.
But still repeating.
I’m originally the kind of person who loves to tell people around me the process for any
plans. And it’s quite hard for me not to tell anyone my true feelings.
But there is also research about one of the secrets of success strategies.
“ Don’t talk to anyone about your plans except for those who directly assist you. “
This way you can concentrate your inner fire, your concentration to succeed.
It’s not so easy to use our minds the right way though.
Dream big as if it is already happening, but not with expectation for it to happen , don’t expect the result, don’t tell about it to anyone, but just do it.
If you use your mind the right way, it will bring good luck and you will succeed.
Saturday, June 27, 2009
Thursday, June 04, 2009
The Weather influences our feeling ? Do you have a habit to complain ?
No matter how we fix our living places based on feng shui science, if you have a habit to interpret things negative way, or look for negative things, it all becomes your personal energy, and influences your future.
Depending on the places where you live, the weather, the scenery, the air, the temperature, these are all influencing our every day feeling.
If you are not in the comfort zone of your living, it may be more easy to get irritation, annoyed, frustration and may be easy to see things negative way.
Are you loving where you live ?
The most recent research of study shows that the top most unhappy / depressed cities in the USA are
1. Portland, OR
2. St. Louis, MO
3. New Orleans, LA
4. Detroit, MI
http://images.businessweek.com/ss/09/02/0226_miserable_cities/2.htm
This data was based on depression, suicide, crime, divorce, cloudy days and unemployment rates, although this doesn’t mean all the people who live there are feeling unhappy.
Portland, OR
Overall rank - 1
Depression rank - 1
Suicide rank - 12
Crime (property and violent) rank - 24
Divorce rate rank - 4
Cloudy days - 222
Unemployment rate (December 2008) - 7.8%
I was actually surprised to see this result about Portland is selected as the most depressive city in the USA.
I have never visited this city, but my image of Portland, seeing movies and photos is a very beautiful peaceful place.
But I never knew cloudy days of Portland is 222/yr and unemployment rate : 7.8%, and depression rank is number one.
Here is more about it and some comments about Portland.
http://www.blueoregon.com/2009/03/no-business-week-portland-is-not-the-most-unhappy-city-in-america.html
For Second unhappiest cities ranking is St. Louis, MO, I understand why it was ranked as number one crime place because I used to live there for about a year.
Especially East St. Louis area was known to be dangerous and the downtown St. Louis was like a ghost town.
Overall my impression of people over there was not so cheerful and friendly, this impression magnified when I moved to AZ because in general the people in AZ are very cheerful and friendly.
Besides doing feng shui, clearing inner personal energy is also important to improve our life.
Here are some suggestion to uplift your personal energy when your feeling is down.
1. Think like you are already valuable and blessed since you were born.
Everyone was born alone with nothing, no clothes , no knowledge etc.. if you have clothes to wear, you are already blessed.
When we start living our life, we get many things, but also when we lose something we got, we feel depressed.
Imagine what you have with gratitude and saying the words “ Thank you “. by appreciating things, our feeling becomes sweet, and this is the best way to clear our mind energy.
2. Communicate with people who make you feel good.
3. Walk around nature under the sun 30 minutes. ( if your living place is too sunny, choose a safe place in the evening time when the sun almost goes down or cloudy days may be better. )
4. Go to see scenery of mountain or beach. Both ocean and mountain have power to relief your stress.
5. Listening to music which make you feel happy.
6. Taking a warm bath.
7. If you are a very active person who are not good at relax and love to always moving around, doing sports or dance which you love will make your feeling good.
Any other tasks you can think of , based on your personality.
Depending on the places where you live, the weather, the scenery, the air, the temperature, these are all influencing our every day feeling.
If you are not in the comfort zone of your living, it may be more easy to get irritation, annoyed, frustration and may be easy to see things negative way.
Are you loving where you live ?
The most recent research of study shows that the top most unhappy / depressed cities in the USA are
1. Portland, OR
2. St. Louis, MO
3. New Orleans, LA
4. Detroit, MI
http://images.businessweek.com/ss/09/02/0226_miserable_cities/2.htm
This data was based on depression, suicide, crime, divorce, cloudy days and unemployment rates, although this doesn’t mean all the people who live there are feeling unhappy.
Portland, OR
Overall rank - 1
Depression rank - 1
Suicide rank - 12
Crime (property and violent) rank - 24
Divorce rate rank - 4
Cloudy days - 222
Unemployment rate (December 2008) - 7.8%
I was actually surprised to see this result about Portland is selected as the most depressive city in the USA.
I have never visited this city, but my image of Portland, seeing movies and photos is a very beautiful peaceful place.
But I never knew cloudy days of Portland is 222/yr and unemployment rate : 7.8%, and depression rank is number one.
Here is more about it and some comments about Portland.
http://www.blueoregon.com/2009/03/no-business-week-portland-is-not-the-most-unhappy-city-in-america.html
For Second unhappiest cities ranking is St. Louis, MO, I understand why it was ranked as number one crime place because I used to live there for about a year.
Especially East St. Louis area was known to be dangerous and the downtown St. Louis was like a ghost town.
Overall my impression of people over there was not so cheerful and friendly, this impression magnified when I moved to AZ because in general the people in AZ are very cheerful and friendly.
Besides doing feng shui, clearing inner personal energy is also important to improve our life.
Here are some suggestion to uplift your personal energy when your feeling is down.
1. Think like you are already valuable and blessed since you were born.
Everyone was born alone with nothing, no clothes , no knowledge etc.. if you have clothes to wear, you are already blessed.
When we start living our life, we get many things, but also when we lose something we got, we feel depressed.
Imagine what you have with gratitude and saying the words “ Thank you “. by appreciating things, our feeling becomes sweet, and this is the best way to clear our mind energy.
2. Communicate with people who make you feel good.
3. Walk around nature under the sun 30 minutes. ( if your living place is too sunny, choose a safe place in the evening time when the sun almost goes down or cloudy days may be better. )
4. Go to see scenery of mountain or beach. Both ocean and mountain have power to relief your stress.
5. Listening to music which make you feel happy.
6. Taking a warm bath.
7. If you are a very active person who are not good at relax and love to always moving around, doing sports or dance which you love will make your feeling good.
Any other tasks you can think of , based on your personality.
Tuesday, March 10, 2009
Chinese 12 zodiac animals - Boar ( Pig )
What is Boar’s character in Eastern astrology ?
If you were born in the years 1947, 1959,1971, 1983 or 1995 then you’re a Boar ( Pig ).
The boar may be the most generous and honorable Sign of the Chinese Zodiac. Boars are nice to a fault and possess impeccable manners and taste.
They are perfectionists and can be perceived them as snobs, but this is a misconception.
Boars are simply possessed of a truly luxurious nature, one that delights in finery and nice things (in surroundings, food, lovemaking and otherwise).
This Sign believes in the best qualities of mankind and certainly doesn't consider itself to be superior. Boars also care a great deal about friends and family and work hard to keep everyone in their life happy.
Helping others is a true pleasure for the Boar, who feels best when everyone else is smiling.
A Boar with no one around to appreciate its giving nature is a sad thing indeed. Boars are so magnanimous they can appear almost saintly; this can lead some less-than-well-intentioned souls to stomp all over this Sign, and the bad news is, the Boar will take the blows.
Boars are highly intelligent creatures, forever studying, playing and probing in their quest for greater knowledge.
They can be misinterpreted as being lazy, however, due to their love of reveling in the good stuff; this Sign could happily spend hours on end making love, napping, taking a long bubble bath or dallying over an incredible spread of rich foods.
Boars tend to make wonderful life partners due to their hearts of gold and their love of family. Even so, Boars can be rather exclusive, choosing to spend time with those who will appreciate them most and ignore the rest of the populace.
Boars would do well to realize that there's more to life than being needed.
When they open up their world to a diverse group of people, they will truly bloom.
The most compatible match for a Boar is the Rabbit or the Sheep.
If you were born in the years 1947, 1959,1971, 1983 or 1995 then you’re a Boar ( Pig ).
The boar may be the most generous and honorable Sign of the Chinese Zodiac. Boars are nice to a fault and possess impeccable manners and taste.
They are perfectionists and can be perceived them as snobs, but this is a misconception.
Boars are simply possessed of a truly luxurious nature, one that delights in finery and nice things (in surroundings, food, lovemaking and otherwise).
This Sign believes in the best qualities of mankind and certainly doesn't consider itself to be superior. Boars also care a great deal about friends and family and work hard to keep everyone in their life happy.
Helping others is a true pleasure for the Boar, who feels best when everyone else is smiling.
A Boar with no one around to appreciate its giving nature is a sad thing indeed. Boars are so magnanimous they can appear almost saintly; this can lead some less-than-well-intentioned souls to stomp all over this Sign, and the bad news is, the Boar will take the blows.
Boars are highly intelligent creatures, forever studying, playing and probing in their quest for greater knowledge.
They can be misinterpreted as being lazy, however, due to their love of reveling in the good stuff; this Sign could happily spend hours on end making love, napping, taking a long bubble bath or dallying over an incredible spread of rich foods.
Boars tend to make wonderful life partners due to their hearts of gold and their love of family. Even so, Boars can be rather exclusive, choosing to spend time with those who will appreciate them most and ignore the rest of the populace.
Boars would do well to realize that there's more to life than being needed.
When they open up their world to a diverse group of people, they will truly bloom.
The most compatible match for a Boar is the Rabbit or the Sheep.
Monday, March 09, 2009
Chinese 12 zodiac animals - Dog
What is Dog’s character in Eastern astrology ?
If you were born in the years 1946, 1958,1970, 1982 or 1994 then you’re a Dog.
Dogs in both the East and West are loyal, faithful and honest and always stick to their firm codes of ethics.
It's generally quite trustworthy itself -- except for the occasional little white lies the Dog tells in order to make things go more smoothly.
The Dog makes a wonderful, discreet and loyal friend and is an excellent listener. This Sign tends to root for the underdog and its keen sense of right and wrong makes it duty-bound to the core.
The Dog's motto seems to be, Live right, look out for the little people and fight injustice whenever possible.
Dogs can also be rather dogmatic, too. They don't go in for light social banter; instead, they go straight for home, discoursing on the topics that are most important to them.
At these times the Dog's narrow-minded or stubborn side can become apparent; this Sign has trouble staying light and calm when an important issue is at stake.
This Sign can also be very temperamental; mood swings characterize its emotional life and often the Dog needs to run off to be alone in order to recuperate.
Part of the problem is the result of this Sign's load of irrational fears that turn into niggling anxieties that turn into hurt feelings and occasional grouchiness.
This sensitive Sign needs to warm up to others over time and gradually learn to trust them. Without that trust as a foundation, Dogs can be judgmental and coarse.
The Dog's discerning nature does make it an excellent business person, one who can turn that picky, guarded nature into a keen sense of the truth of another's motives.
Where love is concerned, Dogs often have a tough time finding the right match. Dogs need to work on controlling their irrational worries and would also be well-served to relax their mile-high standards, which can sometimes wind up alienating the ones they love.
The most compatible match for a Dog is the Tiger or the Horse.
If you were born in the years 1946, 1958,1970, 1982 or 1994 then you’re a Dog.
Dogs in both the East and West are loyal, faithful and honest and always stick to their firm codes of ethics.
It's generally quite trustworthy itself -- except for the occasional little white lies the Dog tells in order to make things go more smoothly.
The Dog makes a wonderful, discreet and loyal friend and is an excellent listener. This Sign tends to root for the underdog and its keen sense of right and wrong makes it duty-bound to the core.
The Dog's motto seems to be, Live right, look out for the little people and fight injustice whenever possible.
Dogs can also be rather dogmatic, too. They don't go in for light social banter; instead, they go straight for home, discoursing on the topics that are most important to them.
At these times the Dog's narrow-minded or stubborn side can become apparent; this Sign has trouble staying light and calm when an important issue is at stake.
This Sign can also be very temperamental; mood swings characterize its emotional life and often the Dog needs to run off to be alone in order to recuperate.
Part of the problem is the result of this Sign's load of irrational fears that turn into niggling anxieties that turn into hurt feelings and occasional grouchiness.
This sensitive Sign needs to warm up to others over time and gradually learn to trust them. Without that trust as a foundation, Dogs can be judgmental and coarse.
The Dog's discerning nature does make it an excellent business person, one who can turn that picky, guarded nature into a keen sense of the truth of another's motives.
Where love is concerned, Dogs often have a tough time finding the right match. Dogs need to work on controlling their irrational worries and would also be well-served to relax their mile-high standards, which can sometimes wind up alienating the ones they love.
The most compatible match for a Dog is the Tiger or the Horse.
Chinese 12 zodiac animals - Rooster
What is Rooster’s character in Eastern astrology ?
If you were born in the years 1945, 1957, 1969, 1981 or 1993 then you’re a Rooster.
The Rooster is described as a pioneer in spirit, devoted to work and the quest for knowledge. It is selfish and eccentric and is best matched with Snakes and Cows.
Roosters are quick thinkers and are practical and resourceful, preferring to stick to what is tried and true rather than taking unnecessary risks.
Roosters are keenly observers of their surroundings and those around them. It's hard to slip anything past a Rooster, since they seem to have eyes in the backs of their heads.
This quality can lead others to think the Rooster is psychic, but that's not generally the case; instead, this Sign enjoys a keen attention to detail that makes it a whiz at anything requiring close analysis.
Roosters make great lawyers, brain surgeons and accountants, to name a few of this Sign's possible occupations.
Above all else, the Rooster is very straightforward and rewards others' honesty in kind.
Roosters tend to be perfectionists and expect to be in control, especially over their appearance. Primping and posing for the Rooster can go on forever.
Being noticed and admired is an aphrodisiac for Roosters, and they can go a long time on a few kind words.
Roosters also adore being out on the town, especially if they're in the company of adoring friends.
The Rooster will also be the best-dressed one of the bunch -- style counts with this Sign, regardless of the cost.
Roosters need to learn to value their heart and soul as much as their good looks.
Their excellent people skills and sharp minds are qualities that others will appreciate as much as a pretty face.
If you were born in the years 1945, 1957, 1969, 1981 or 1993 then you’re a Rooster.
The Rooster is described as a pioneer in spirit, devoted to work and the quest for knowledge. It is selfish and eccentric and is best matched with Snakes and Cows.
Roosters are quick thinkers and are practical and resourceful, preferring to stick to what is tried and true rather than taking unnecessary risks.
Roosters are keenly observers of their surroundings and those around them. It's hard to slip anything past a Rooster, since they seem to have eyes in the backs of their heads.
This quality can lead others to think the Rooster is psychic, but that's not generally the case; instead, this Sign enjoys a keen attention to detail that makes it a whiz at anything requiring close analysis.
Roosters make great lawyers, brain surgeons and accountants, to name a few of this Sign's possible occupations.
Above all else, the Rooster is very straightforward and rewards others' honesty in kind.
Roosters tend to be perfectionists and expect to be in control, especially over their appearance. Primping and posing for the Rooster can go on forever.
Being noticed and admired is an aphrodisiac for Roosters, and they can go a long time on a few kind words.
Roosters also adore being out on the town, especially if they're in the company of adoring friends.
The Rooster will also be the best-dressed one of the bunch -- style counts with this Sign, regardless of the cost.
Roosters need to learn to value their heart and soul as much as their good looks.
Their excellent people skills and sharp minds are qualities that others will appreciate as much as a pretty face.
Sunday, March 08, 2009
Chinese 12 zodiac animals - Sheep
What is Sheep’s character in Eastern astrology ?
If you were born in the year 1943, 1955, 1967, 1979, 1991 or 2003 then you are a Sheep.
You’re elegant and creative, somewhat timid and prefer anonymity.
You are most compatible with Boars and Rabbits, but don’t mix it up with the Cows.
Sheep tend to have a hard time with romance; anyone who couples up with a sheep must know, this Sign has a sensitive streak a mile wide and can be subject to bouts of anxiety over seemingly inconsequential things.
Sheep needs plenty of love, support and open reassurance from their lovers. If a relationship is marked by conflict, the sheep will often pull away -- either physically or simply by retreating into the safe haven of its imagination.
If the romance is going well, however, sheep won't hesitate to tell their partner what they need -- and they can be quite insistent about it.
This sign will definitely return the favor, however; the sheep has a luxurious side that delights in indulging a lover's every wish.
Appearances are also important to the sheep, which may explain why these folks can spend hours primping and posing.
Sheep are generally most comfortable in their own minds (which other, more linear-thinking Signs may have trouble deciphering).
This Sign makes a great craftsperson or artisan, or perhaps a teacher of New Age studies -- any occupation that allows its mind the full range of freedom.
Sheep tend not to be very well-organized, precluding many more dry business endeavors.
In fact, Sheep tend not to be very materialistic in general, finding plenty of riches in their own imagination.
However, especially when in love, the sheep can be quite a lavish gift-giver.
If you were born in the year 1943, 1955, 1967, 1979, 1991 or 2003 then you are a Sheep.
You’re elegant and creative, somewhat timid and prefer anonymity.
You are most compatible with Boars and Rabbits, but don’t mix it up with the Cows.
Sheep tend to have a hard time with romance; anyone who couples up with a sheep must know, this Sign has a sensitive streak a mile wide and can be subject to bouts of anxiety over seemingly inconsequential things.
Sheep needs plenty of love, support and open reassurance from their lovers. If a relationship is marked by conflict, the sheep will often pull away -- either physically or simply by retreating into the safe haven of its imagination.
If the romance is going well, however, sheep won't hesitate to tell their partner what they need -- and they can be quite insistent about it.
This sign will definitely return the favor, however; the sheep has a luxurious side that delights in indulging a lover's every wish.
Appearances are also important to the sheep, which may explain why these folks can spend hours primping and posing.
Sheep are generally most comfortable in their own minds (which other, more linear-thinking Signs may have trouble deciphering).
This Sign makes a great craftsperson or artisan, or perhaps a teacher of New Age studies -- any occupation that allows its mind the full range of freedom.
Sheep tend not to be very well-organized, precluding many more dry business endeavors.
In fact, Sheep tend not to be very materialistic in general, finding plenty of riches in their own imagination.
However, especially when in love, the sheep can be quite a lavish gift-giver.
Chinese 12 zodiac animals - Horse
What is Horse’s character in Eastern astrology ?
If you were born in the year 1942, 1954, 1966, 1978, 1990 or 2002, then you are a Horse.
You’re popular and attractive to the opposite sex. You can be ostentations and impatient. You need people, but should marry a Tiger or a Dog. Avoid the Rat!
Horses crave love and intimacy, which is a double-edged sword since it often leads them to feel trapped.
Love connections tend to come easily to Horses, since they exude the kind of raw sex appeal that is a magnet to others.
This Sign tends to come on very strong in the beginning of the relationship, having an almost innate sense of romance and seduction.
Horses are seducers in general; check out any A-list party and you're bound to find the Horse in attendance.
This Sign possesses a sharp wit and a scintillating presence; it really knows how to work a crowd.
Surprisingly, Horses tend to feel a bit inferior to their peers, a misconception that causes them to drift from group to group out of an irrational fear of being exposed as a fraud.
Horses tend not to look much at the big picture; instead they just follow their whims, which can result in a trail of prematurely ended relationships, jobs, projects and so on.
This Sign really knows how to motivate others, though, and get a lot accomplished.
Once they find some peace within themselves, they can curb their wandering tendencies and learn to appreciate what's in their own backyard.
Horses are the nomads of the Chinese Zodiac, roaming from one place or project to the next.
All of this Sign's incessant activity and searching may be to satisfy a deep-rooted desire to fit in.
Paradoxically, Horses feel a simultaneous yearning for independence and freedom.
Thursday, March 05, 2009
Chinese 12 zodiac animals - Snake
What is Snake’s character in Eastern astrology ?
If you were born in the years 1941, 1953, 1965, 1977, 1989 and 2001, you are snake.
Wise and intense with a tendency towards physical beauty. Vain and high tempered.
Snakes are interesting mix of extroversion paired with introversion, intuitive reasoning paired with business savoir-faire.
Snakes are considered to be lucky with money and will generally have more than enough to live life to the fullest, regardless of how important it considers money to be; this may be due to the fact that Snakes tend to be rather tight with cash.
They're not stingy; they're simply more mentally than physically active.
Snakes tend to hang back a bit in order to analyze a situation before jumping into it.
Their charming, seductive quality actually belies a rather retiring nature; this Sign is perfectly happy to spend the whole day curled up with a good book and, thus, can be mislabeled as being lazy.
Snakes are somewhat insecure deep down and tend to be a rather jealous, possessive lover, behavior that can end up alienating loved ones.
Despite these less-than-stellar tendencies, however, the Snake often proves irresistible and is a generous, loving partner.
Slightly dangerous and disarmingly smart, the Snake's philosophical and intuitive mind generally supersedes logic in favor of feelings and instinct.
Snakes will rely on their own gut reactions and intuitions before turning to others for suggestions.
This makes this Sign a great hand in any business venture, possessing the caution and smarts needed to get ahead.
In general, of course, Snakes are generous and genteel, charming and appealing. Snakes must try to learn humility and to develop a stronger sense of self.
Once Snakes realize that confidence comes from within, they will finally be comfortable in their own skin.
The most compatible match for a Snake is the Rooster or the Cow.
If you were born in the years 1941, 1953, 1965, 1977, 1989 and 2001, you are snake.
Wise and intense with a tendency towards physical beauty. Vain and high tempered.
Snakes are interesting mix of extroversion paired with introversion, intuitive reasoning paired with business savoir-faire.
Snakes are considered to be lucky with money and will generally have more than enough to live life to the fullest, regardless of how important it considers money to be; this may be due to the fact that Snakes tend to be rather tight with cash.
They're not stingy; they're simply more mentally than physically active.
Snakes tend to hang back a bit in order to analyze a situation before jumping into it.
Their charming, seductive quality actually belies a rather retiring nature; this Sign is perfectly happy to spend the whole day curled up with a good book and, thus, can be mislabeled as being lazy.
Snakes are somewhat insecure deep down and tend to be a rather jealous, possessive lover, behavior that can end up alienating loved ones.
Despite these less-than-stellar tendencies, however, the Snake often proves irresistible and is a generous, loving partner.
Slightly dangerous and disarmingly smart, the Snake's philosophical and intuitive mind generally supersedes logic in favor of feelings and instinct.
Snakes will rely on their own gut reactions and intuitions before turning to others for suggestions.
This makes this Sign a great hand in any business venture, possessing the caution and smarts needed to get ahead.
In general, of course, Snakes are generous and genteel, charming and appealing. Snakes must try to learn humility and to develop a stronger sense of self.
Once Snakes realize that confidence comes from within, they will finally be comfortable in their own skin.
The most compatible match for a Snake is the Rooster or the Cow.
Chinese 12 zodiac animals - Dragon
What is Dragon’s character in Eastern astrology ?
Dragons are one of the most powerful and lucky Signs of the Chinese Zodiac. Its warm heart tempers its fiery and rambunctious nature.
If you were born in the years 1940, 1952, 1964, 1976, 1988 or 2000, you’re a Dragon.
This is a giving, intelligent and tenacious Sign that knows exactly what it wants and is determined to get it.
Dragons possess a certain natural, charm that ensures they can always influence their peers and often find themselves the center of attention in social situations.
This Sign is truly blessed, too. Dragons are considered to be very lucky in love. Dragon's friends are always keen to hear what this firebrand has to say and when it comes to dispensing advice, the Dragon has the floor.
Its ego can get in the way, but even so, this larger-than-life creature has a knack for creativity and leadership.
According to Dragons, it's their natural born right to lead the way -- because who else could do it so surely and so well.
As lucky as they are, Dragons have a good chance of achieving considerable material wealth during their lifetimes, although it isn't mere money that's this Sign's main motivation.
Power is what the Dragon wants and truly believes it deserves. Dragons are quite the opportunists, forever searching for ways in which to consolidate their considerable power.
Contrary to all this strength and fire, a weakened Dragon is a sad sack, a creature that refuses to take defeat with even a modicum of grace.
The leadership role is the only one for the Dragon, the better from which to give orders and be king of the hill.
They make solid leaders, too, knowing instinctively what needs to be done to stay on top.
Crossing the Dragon is never a good idea -- this beast can singe.
A valuable life lesson for this clever creature would be to absorb the principles of flexibility, compassion and tolerance.
Being high and mighty can serve to inspire others, but it also keeps Dragons from living their lives to the fullest.
If Dragons can learn to balance their quest for success with an appreciation for the little things, their life will be more than worthwhile.
The most compatible match for a Dragon is Monkey or Rat.
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Wednesday, March 04, 2009
Chinese 12 zodiac animals - Rabbit
What is Rabbit’s character in Eastern astrology ?
If you were born in the years 1939, 1951, 1963, 1975, 1987 or 1999, you’re a Rabbit.
Timid and attractive, the Rabbits of the Chinese Zodiac tend to act more like bunnies, whether they like it or not!
This Sign is extremely popular and has a wide circle of family and friends. Its compassionate nature leads it to be very protective of those it holds dear, but where romance is concerned, the Rabbit's sentimentality can lead it to idealize relationships.
The sweet, sensitive Rabbit often ends up giving more of itself to a partner than is realistic or healthy.
The good news is, when this sign goes off-balance, the Rabbit's core group of friends and its stable home life help bring it back to center.
The Rabbit is a rather delicate Sign that needs a solid base in order to thrive. Lacking close, supportive friends and family, the Rabbit might just break down in tears at the first sign of conflict.
Emotional upsets in this Sign's life can even lead to physical illnesses.
Rabbits dislike arguments and other conflict and will try anything to avoid a fight; this results in something of a pushover nature.
Rabbits can also lapse into pessimism and may seem stuck in life -- often to mask their insecure natures.
Rabbits tend to move through life's lessons at their own, rather contemplative pace; it's a waste of time to become exasperated with this Sign's seeming disinterest in facing its problems and conquering them.
With the right partner -- meaning someone whose high principles won't allow it to take advantage of this sensitive, giving Sign -- the Rabbit can make an incredibly loving and protective partner or family member.
Rabbits love to entertain at home and always make sure their house is comfortable and tastefully-furnished.
What Rabbits need most is a stronger sense of self-worth and the security that comes with it. Their discerning natures, coupled with some hard-won assertiveness, will help these happy creatures go far.
The most compatible match for a Rabbit is the Sheep or the Boar.
If you were born in the years 1939, 1951, 1963, 1975, 1987 or 1999, you’re a Rabbit.
Timid and attractive, the Rabbits of the Chinese Zodiac tend to act more like bunnies, whether they like it or not!
This Sign is extremely popular and has a wide circle of family and friends. Its compassionate nature leads it to be very protective of those it holds dear, but where romance is concerned, the Rabbit's sentimentality can lead it to idealize relationships.
The sweet, sensitive Rabbit often ends up giving more of itself to a partner than is realistic or healthy.
The good news is, when this sign goes off-balance, the Rabbit's core group of friends and its stable home life help bring it back to center.
The Rabbit is a rather delicate Sign that needs a solid base in order to thrive. Lacking close, supportive friends and family, the Rabbit might just break down in tears at the first sign of conflict.
Emotional upsets in this Sign's life can even lead to physical illnesses.
Rabbits dislike arguments and other conflict and will try anything to avoid a fight; this results in something of a pushover nature.
Rabbits can also lapse into pessimism and may seem stuck in life -- often to mask their insecure natures.
Rabbits tend to move through life's lessons at their own, rather contemplative pace; it's a waste of time to become exasperated with this Sign's seeming disinterest in facing its problems and conquering them.
With the right partner -- meaning someone whose high principles won't allow it to take advantage of this sensitive, giving Sign -- the Rabbit can make an incredibly loving and protective partner or family member.
Rabbits love to entertain at home and always make sure their house is comfortable and tastefully-furnished.
What Rabbits need most is a stronger sense of self-worth and the security that comes with it. Their discerning natures, coupled with some hard-won assertiveness, will help these happy creatures go far.
The most compatible match for a Rabbit is the Sheep or the Boar.
Chinese 12 zodiac animals - Tiger
What is Tiger’s character in Eastern astrology ?
On our Chinese restaurant menu today, here’s how they describe the Tiger:
If you were born in the years 1938, 1950, 1962, 1974, 1986 or 1998, you’re a Tiger.
Tiger people are aggressive, courageous, candid and sensitive. Look to the Horse and Boar for happiness. Beware of the Monkey.
Tigers are born leaders. The Tiger is the third Sign of the Chinese Zodiac.
It is a Yang Sign and most closely associated with the Wood Element.
The Tiger is a very changeable person, with a potent natural ability that is often in great danger of being abused. They are either leaders or rebels.
They can be vain, quarrelsome and overly aggressive at times, but their inherent charisma and vast reserves of charm are usually sufficient to extract them from any problems that may arise from their lack of foresight.
Their idealistic outlook on life can take quite a few knocks on the head from this abrupt reality until it finally collapses -- at which point the Tiger personality can lapse into its less attractive aspects.
Tigers are courageous beyond compare and generally come out ahead in battle, be it in the boardroom or the bedroom.
Seduction is one area where the Tiger is definitely king. Noble and warm-hearted, Tigers have a natural, raw appeal that's extremely attractive to other Signs.
They're not just about attraction, though; ever on the side of right, Tigers will fight the good fight to the bitter end if the cause is worthy.
Opponents are wise to fear this feline.
A lesson that Tigers would be well-served to learn is moderation in all things.
Once they can find their center and direct their considerable energies toward worthwhile endeavors (as opposed to racing through life), they will accomplish much.
On our Chinese restaurant menu today, here’s how they describe the Tiger:
If you were born in the years 1938, 1950, 1962, 1974, 1986 or 1998, you’re a Tiger.
Tiger people are aggressive, courageous, candid and sensitive. Look to the Horse and Boar for happiness. Beware of the Monkey.
Tigers are born leaders. The Tiger is the third Sign of the Chinese Zodiac.
It is a Yang Sign and most closely associated with the Wood Element.
The Tiger is a very changeable person, with a potent natural ability that is often in great danger of being abused. They are either leaders or rebels.
They can be vain, quarrelsome and overly aggressive at times, but their inherent charisma and vast reserves of charm are usually sufficient to extract them from any problems that may arise from their lack of foresight.
Their idealistic outlook on life can take quite a few knocks on the head from this abrupt reality until it finally collapses -- at which point the Tiger personality can lapse into its less attractive aspects.
Tigers are courageous beyond compare and generally come out ahead in battle, be it in the boardroom or the bedroom.
Seduction is one area where the Tiger is definitely king. Noble and warm-hearted, Tigers have a natural, raw appeal that's extremely attractive to other Signs.
They're not just about attraction, though; ever on the side of right, Tigers will fight the good fight to the bitter end if the cause is worthy.
Opponents are wise to fear this feline.
A lesson that Tigers would be well-served to learn is moderation in all things.
Once they can find their center and direct their considerable energies toward worthwhile endeavors (as opposed to racing through life), they will accomplish much.
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